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Divorce Made Simple

Divorce doesn’t have to be the nightmare you’ve always heard about. Provorce is helping couples smooth the course of divorce. Our revolutionary approach is guided by a professional philosophy whose goal is to minimize emotional stress during a divorce, and also minimize financial costs. By creating an atmosphere of understanding, respect, honesty and fairness among everyone involved, our clients leave with a sense of dignity, self-respect, and renewed hope.

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Why Provorce?

Because we believe that people want to do the right thing… Provorce lets them do it.

Provorce helps couples avoid the traditional, adversarial, conflict-laden process. Instead of attorneys negotiating about what they think is best, we work together with our clients to create what they think is best for the family.

The Provorce goal is to reach a fair settlement in a timely and cost-efficient manner – in an atmosphere that is healthier for everyone involved. We reach this objective by creating and maintaining an atmosphere that fosters understanding, respect, honesty and fairness among all participants in the process. Achieving our goal allows our clients to face a future with dignity, self-respect, and renewed hope.

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Open Communication

We eliminate adversarial legal proceedings and just talk about the best possible solution for both parties and their family.

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Dynamic Teamwork

Where necessary we bring together appropriate professionals to support the efforts of our clients.

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Creative Solutions

By creating a healthy atmosphere for everyone involved, we are able to reach reasonable terms for both parties.

Provorce vs. Divorce

Who Is Provorce For?

Those who want to be in control of making important decisions for their future instead of leaving them to an uninterested third party like a judge
Those who, above all else, want the best possible protection and outcome for their children
Those who realize, fundamentally, that they want to do the right thing in ending
Those who want the healthiest post-divorce relationships possible
Those whose love for their children far outweighs their dislike for each other

How Is Provorce Different?

Not a courtroom … a Productive conference room environment
Elimination of Pronounced power imbalances between spouses
Proactive coaching support along the way
No Proclivity for expensive court motions and delaying tactics by fight-to-the-finish litigators
Constant Progress toward a mutually beneficial agreement
Promotes healthier post-divorce relationships
A Promise of divorce with dignity
A Professional Team Approach: Extensively trained Attorneys, Mental Health Practitioners, Financial Experts, Child Specialists
Thoughtful, creative Problem-solving techniques
Protocols based on fair, respectful behavior by all participants
Superior Protection for children
A faster, less expensive, less emotionally scarring Process
No Prolonged in-fighting by combative lawyers

ALL OF THE PROS. NONE OF THE CONS.

6 Golden Rules

“DO UNTO YOUR SPOUSE AS YOU WOULD HAVE YOUR SPOUSE DO UNTO YOU”

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Be respectful and listen to the other side’s concerns

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Be truthful, complete and transparent about all financial issues

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Try to identify early-on any issues that can easily be agreed to. This can help create a more productive working relationship for later sessions

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Communicate fully your hopes and desires for the future to your professional team so they can proactively help in resolving conflicts

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If children are involved, realize that both sides have their best interests at heart and work together toward that end

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Be creative in solving problems that arise and compromise where necessary

Divorce Made Simple with Dynamic Teamwork

Specialized Experts Ready to Work Together for the Best Possible Outcome

Some cases have special circumstances that require special attention by a professional trained to meet those special needs. This can include experts to help navigate and manage emotions and experts to help navigate and manage finances.

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A Child and Family Specialist will help the parties talk to their children in ways that will minimize or eliminate the trauma often present in family conflict. Co-parenting options are discussed and developed based on the best interests of the children with the healthiest possible post-divorce relationships as the goal.

Financial Experts help the parties understand the myriad amount of information so important in any divorce action and level the playing field where one spouse may know more than the other about the family finances.

By empowering the less knowledgeable spouse with information and understanding the Financial Advisor can alleviate feelings of inadequacy. Providing a clear, concise picture of the family’s current financial position, future scenarios, tax ramifications and asset management can allow them to make important decisions going forward.

Provorce Protects Children

In the Provorce process, parents control every aspect of their divorce and how it affects their children. They have a parenting plan blueprint for decision. They envision ways they can create an emotionally safe family life for their children in both of their homes and create positive childhood memories. Parents learn how to talk to their kids about divorce and recognize and respond to behaviors and signs of anxiety that signify the need for more intervention. They also prepare for navigating new territory, such as integrating new relationships into their children’s lives. In these and other ways, responds to the needs of children.

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Schedule a free consultation to begin the best decision you’ll make for your divorce. Call 516-773-3133 or send us a confidential inquiry.

Conveniently located in Northwestern Nassau County, an easy drive from Westchester, the Bronx, Queens and Long Island and 25 minutes on the LIRR from Manhattan. Ample Free Parking.

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Which Divorce Process is Best for You?

Would your Spouse be Surprised?

How Do I Achieve the Best Outcome?

Both of us would like to go on record, and offer to speak to anyone regarding the benefits of your mediation skills. We are able to have conversations that we never have an opportunity to have elsewhere. We couldn’t discuss anything in a way that we heard each other without you. I love how you always check in with each of us to see what we think about everything. In our sessions it seems it doesn’t feel like we’re divorcing. We’re now able to discuss and explore everything together, and this helps immensely.

C. & J. S.

Elmhurst, NY

Thank you for helping us get through our situation. I hope you know how happy we both are with the final outcome. I wanted you to know that we are both able to be at our children’s celebrations and events together. (We’ve even gone on vacation together.) We live close to each other, and share a great deal of time with the girls. I told (XX) who is a close friend about you and he will be calling you soon. I know you’ll do a great job for him too. I hope all is well with you.

P.S.

Huntington, NY

Now that our ordeal is finally over it’s time to thank you for the professionalism you showed throughout these past few months. Please feel free to tell others our story: After four long years and over $100,000 spent on lawyers who seemed to only put us further and further away from a settlement we decided to try mediation. Luckily, we found you. In just five months you were able to do what we thought was impossible – guiding us to an agreement we could both live with. So thank you, thank you, thank you!

A.C.

Great Neck, NY